A “note” on Facebook I stumbled into took me back to a post from Feb 28, 2009, my 33rd birthday. People often don’t realize how much their life, thinking, and outlook changes over the years.
Instead of bullshitting myself with a list of resolutions this year, I’ll give myself some advice so when I come to a point in 2013 where I can’t remind myself who I am supposed to be, or what I’m supposed to be doing, I’ll come back here.
Unburden yourself from your regrets. Let them go. They’ll never allow you to be happy. And they are a great recipe for future regrets. They want to be let go and you’re just holding them back to feel sorry for yourself. Don’t be that person.
Be hard on yourself when it comes to your art and craft. Be a Jiro of your craft.
Trust your instincts. It has not failed you. Trust your gut. It has not failed you. Which leads to…
Take on projects that scare you a little. Take on projects even if others may be convinced won’t have an audience. Take on projects that are not topical.
You’ve decided to call yourself a storyteller so stop trying to make the profession palatable for others. Most of them won’t know what it means or why storytelling means so much to you, but they’ll get your passion for it. Again, be like Jiro.
Listen, your voice in storytelling is emerging – not just my opinion – but you need to be bold, daring, and explore farther. But don’t try to duplicate success of one project with another. It’s stupid. Every project is starting fresh. Every project needs a new set of tools. Make your tools work for you, not the other way around.
Remember, people love to be told stories. They’ll pause their lives to give your story a chance. They have a thousand other things they could be doing than be your audience. Be respectful of their time. They need to trust your honesty in telling stories.
Remind yourself why you’re in the storytelling business, because circumstances will sometimes make you doubt your existence. You’re doing this because you love to tell stories. Your product has to be very good and a result of your hard work and dedication. You can’t do it because of money, or fame. Although both will tempt you in taking a left on Mediocre Ave. Don’t fall for that shit. Or I’ll have to give you a kick in the ass.
Dedication, discipline, and diet. Remember these three things that will make you a better storyteller.
About working with people. Most professionals will be horrified by what I’m about to say : be picky about who you work for, work with, or work around. Don’t associate with hacks, phonies, and assholes. However, if you do find yourself in such a position, you and I both agree that the work at hand should still be given 100% and never less. You’ve been good about that. Don’t change.
Life experience is a school we can’t quit. Take from it what works for your life and for your work. Discard the rest. Don’t forget there’s a life outside of work that needs to be lived. Take Maurice’s advice, “Live your life, Live your life, Live your life”.
Bonus advice: You’re a good person with a good heart. Don’t let anyone fuck it up. Have a great 2013!
This is essentially a book about writing as much as it is about running. But it mostly is about running, don’t get me wrong. Murakami lays bare his thoughts on what it takes to be a runner and writer, like himself; the physical & mental demands both require. I’ll admit that the book inspires me to start running. I do live next to a beautiful park.
Just finished: Stephen King’s “11/22/63″ - Got into the story quickly and was hooked. Then it slowed down a little and made me wonder if it would live up to my expectations. It did, however, in an unexpected way. I’d give very few 800+ pages books a chance.
I’d decided that a glass every hour of my waking hours should suffice. That’s a lot of water. But chances are, I thought, I’d miss a couple of hours here and there and it would still be fine. The ‘You must drink eight gasses of water per day’ rule would still work out somehow. But Scientific American debunked that theory.
Reading that article I’m left with not knowing how many glasses of water I should drink per day. The best I could come up with “Every time I step into the kitchen”.
ABC reached out to Technorati blogger partners with links to two of their upcoming shows, Once Upon A Time and Charlie’s Angels (both previews). Here’s my short schmeview!
‘Once Upon A Time’ actually makes me want to watch the show. TV previews rarely do. But then again, anything from “the writers of LOST” will pique my interest. As did Jennifer Morrison. :-)
The ‘Charlie’s Angels’ preview, on the other hand, makes me want to do the opposite. I don’t even want to watch the show to see if it’ll be good.
An (in)famous moment captured on film (Some say this was staged. And by ‘some’ I mean anonymous commenters on the YouTube – god bless them). There’s, I thought, a lot of man love for each other displayed in this fight. But that’s just me her.
The Hot Docs Festival in Toronto is mid way through. I’ll admit that I’ve only found out about this festival yesterday and that’s a shame. The lineup of docs in this festival is amazing. The following stood out as I went alphabetically. It’s not possible to check all of them out now. I’ll get back to them later.
This one looks good although I wonder why the main subject is speaking in Hindi. I know you folks won’t give a shit since you’d care less for the difference but if the main character is not Bengali then the title doesn’t make a lot of sense. The film, however, I’d watch because you can’t make this shit up. No wonder Fox Searchlight is doing a remake. Yes, so I learned that Rajesh Ji (the main character) is actually Bihari. Does it matter?
A year inside an Intercontinental airport, the filmmaker captured what goes on inside. Although ending the trailer with that sound is a little hokey, unless it really happened.